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Having just been in the Congo for the last month, it is evident that the more than 12-year economic war in the Democratic Republic of Congo rages on. Almost 6 million dead. Almost 500 thousand raped. Here is what I propose:

1. Please stop endlessly repeating these phrases:

• “The Congo has been like this forever.”

• “There is nothing we can do.”

• “It’s too complicated. I just don’t understand.”

• “It’s a cultural thing.”

A. Violence against women and girls is rampant across the entire planet.

B. Sexual terrorism was imported into the DRC like a plague about 12 years ago years ago, after a 1996 military operation know as Operation Turquoise — a plan supported and implemented by the international community which allowed murdering Hutu militias of Rwanda (FDLR) into Eastern Congo. Since then, this sexual terrorism has been sustained by these and other parties interested in the minerals, (coltan, gold, tin), that are serving you. Like a plague, this rape and sexual violence has spread infecting the Congolese Army and even the UN peacekeepers who are there to “protect” the women. Put pressure on the international community to remove all outside militias. They brought them there, they are responsible for getting them out.

2. Stop asking women survivors in the Congo to tell their stories over and over

A woman activist told me yesterday they were going to shut up now.
“There is no reason to keep telling the story or paying expats lots of money
to research the story of women and girls in the Congo. We all know the story.”

Visit these sites:
Read the latest U.N. human rights reports from the NYT
AFEM
Friends of Congo
Read the recent Human Rights Watch reports
Read the history

We know what is happening in the DRC. Now is the time for action.

3. Deconstruct and abolish subterranean and learned racism

Deconstruct and abolish subterranean and learned racism that lies at the bedrock of human consciousness and arranges and expects and accepts the doom of black and brown people. Undo the brutal and evil indifference to the suffering of the people of Congo, the women in particular.

4. Shoes, shoes, shoes, for everyone who needs them

5. Insist on support for thousands of trained Congolese women police officers

Insist on support for thousands of trained Congolese women police officers who can protect their sisters in the bush. Don’t let Security Council resolutions 1820 and 1325 continue to be random insider numbers UN policy bureaucrats refer to when they are trying to prove they are doing something about sexual violence. Insist they be resolutions with grit that get applied regularly with sincerity and substance. Begin application by insisting that the UN not collaborate with rapists and former warlords in military operations.

Write to Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and ask her to allocate funding for a women’s police force in the Congo:

Secretary of State Hillary Clinton
US Department of State
2201 C Street NW
Washington, DC 20520

6. Serve the Congolese and take their lead

Support their initiatives. Get out of the way. Support the local groups and campaigns that already exist, that have existed. They need your support to continue to exist. Fight to make sure the money headed for Eastern Congo actually gets to the women on the ground – the grassroots groups who need it most. Believe in grassroots women and men. Send them your confidence, your solidarity, and your money.

Give to V-Day’s Stop Raping Our Greatest Resource campaign as it continues to support local groups on the ground like AFEM, the South Kivu Women’s Media Association, Panzi Hospital in Bukavu and Heal Africa Hospital in Goma, women’s collectives like I Will Not Kill Myself Today and AFECOD, and the Women’s Ministry and Laissez l’Afrique Vivre.

Click here to donate.

7. Tell President Obama to step up to femicide

Insist that as a Nobel Peace Prize winner, President Obama ask questions about the history of the conflict in the Congo. Ask him to find out how and when this war began. Ask him to put his attention to what’s happening to the women in the Congo, to femicide — the destruction of the female species that is spreading to other countries and will continue to spread if he, himself does not make this a front and center issue. The Congo needs to be more than a phrase reference in one of his speeches. He needs to come to the Congo. He needs to meet the women and bring them to the table with himself and leaders of Rwanda and Uganda and Burundi. He needs to help facilitate a diplomatic plan for peace that does not involve more violence.

Write to President Obama and ask him to make finding a non-military solution to the war in Congo a priority in his foreign policy agenda.

8. Acknowledge what’s fueling this war and your part in it

Educate yourself about how conflict minerals are illegally and inhumanely pillaged from the Congo and make their way into your cell phones and the computer you are using to read this post right now. Demand that electronics companies alter their mining and trade policies so that conflict-free minerals are used in our electronics. Until this happens, we all literally have blood on our hands.

Investigate where and how your electronics companies are purchasing their materials. As a consumer, demand that they use conflict-free minerals in their parts.

9. Talk about the Congo everywhere you go

Be a pain in the ass. Ruin cocktail parties. Stop traffic. Give sermons. Insert facts about Congo in every possible occasion, i.e., in response to “How are you today?,” you might say: “Well, I would be okay if women weren’t being raped in the DRC….”

Host teach-ins and screen V-Day’s film Turning Pain to Power. Visit vday.org to access both.

10. Get angry and stop being polite

Feel what your sister, mother, grandmother, daughter, wife, girlfriend would be feeling if she were being gang raped or held as a sex slave for years or if her insides were destroyed by sticks and guns and she could never have another baby.

Feel feel feel.

Open yourself to feeling.
Eve Ensler, a playwright and activist, is the founder of V-Day, a global movement to end violence against women and girls.

Preuzeto sa: HUFFINGTON POST

Preuzela sam ovu pricu sa bloga moje prijateljice i koleginice sa fakulteta Nigist. Ona zivi u Etiopiji i trudi se da uradi nesto za Chirtu i zene slicne njoj…

Opet sam se potresla… Preuzeto sa Habeshaviews

This is the true story of Chirta. She lives in rural southern Ethiopia. Let’s leave out the exact location for the sake of politics. Let me take you through how her life and days go by.

She is 25. She is skinny and looks very old for her age. She has never been to school. She already has 5 children and more likely to have more like the rest of the women in her village.

Every morning , she gets up at 3 and walk for 2 hours to reach to the nearest water point. She lines up for another two hours and walk back for another 2 carrying 2 big Jeri Cans full of water. She usually gets back home at around 11 a.m and prepares food for the family. She walks another hour to take the food to her husband working on the farm. She spends the afternoon working with him and get back home before the end of the day to prepare dinner. She starts on dinner at around 6 PM after walking back for another 2 hours. By the time everyone is done eating and she cleans up the mess, its already 11 PM. She goes to sleep and walks up again at 3 in the morning.

She does this everyday.

Some days,  she goes out to collect firewood.  The forest in the area has ,literally, died out. She has to walk for 8-9 hours to collect wood. Walking down might not be a problem for her, coming back carrying a long heavy buckle of wood is.

In between the long walks to fetch water or firewood anything can happen. Anything from rape to abduction to getting beaten.

The same routine goes by even when she is pregnant. Many of the women in her villages have a similar schedule. Some of them give birth on the farms and are expected to get back to work in a few days.

It hasn’t rained enough for another season. They haven’t had  sufficient food in the house in a long time. When this happens she eats last after the children and the husband. There are days she doesn’t eat at all.

I could tell she hasn’t had anything to eat  in I don’t know how long . But , I have never seen such dry lips in my entire life. She still manages to smile and talk to me for hours. Not that she has time to chat ,just that she has to be nice to strangers.

In all anthropological fairness am trying not to be judgmental. But, I keep thinking, what the heck kind of society treats women like that ?